STANDING ON THE OTHER SIDE OF THE FENCE

                                   

Why people emphasize this point and why it is probably the hard thing to do(assuming it is hard)

Everyone has different life, different situations depending on the environment they live and the way they are raised or not raised. So each one experience a different life all together. 7.3 billion lives in which one might not be the same with other.

For example, Bill Gates view the life differently than an average person do. Every situation is unique for each individual and does not include everyone even though you think it is.

Unless we experience the exact same situation, that other person experienced,  and if the thinking matches with that other person, only then we can respond to that in a arbitrarily correct way.

That's why it looks easy, but it's hard to exactly replicate what other person think on the other side of the fence. But if we can let go of our prejudices and preconceived notions about an opinion, then we may possess the arsenal to think in those terms.

"Standing on the other side of the fence" may be the better thing is to fly up and look overview🤣